About Me

Natasha Wiebe

Natasha Wiebe is an international coach and speaker, and founder of Fix Your Life Solutions Inc.

She became fascinated with relationship dynamics through growing up with polar opposite households. A redneck, Dutch, old-school John Wayne/cowboy of a dad, never married or in a relationship (long-term or casual) post-“oopsie” (being Natasha), and a proper English-raised housewife on her fourth marriage, with a blended family of mentally/physically challenged foster children, an adopted international daughter, and her 3 bio-children (of which Natasha was the youngest) for a mom.

Due to the multitude of different personalities, styles, and triggers, Natasha learned how to communicate and interact with each person differently. She saw and learned the world from multiple perspectives, and was taught with her siblings how to anticipate and gauge reactions before they happened (VERY important with neuro-atypicals). She learned Dutch people had a different perspective from British (and vice versa), hearing people from deaf, blind people from seeing, Christian from Jehovah Witnesses, and many, many more.

She learned her parent’s different perspectives on who they expected their child to be – on her paternal side, she was the first daughter to be born as a firstborn in 10 generations. Her father was very much stereotypical macho-male energy, and her mother had very stereotypical docile-female energy.

When she was 16, she realized she had the belief “love = sacrifice,” and began the quest for her answer to “how could someone keep growing and developing themselves at the same rate as their partner, and still love each other (through the process)?”. Throughout the years, she studied psychology, questioned her bar patrons of why they were still with partners when they were so unhappy/bitching/cheating, until she received her coaching and NLP certification. She’s volunteered with at-risk youth, and worked with people who experienced sexual assault/abuse and taught them how to reclaim their sexuality and confidence.

All genders and all ages have different perceptions (on relationships, sexuality, etc.), and Natasha has such a passion for helping people to understand one another better, and be understood better, so that homes are filled with happiness, confidence, and love, and this world is one of kindness, acceptance, and peace.

How We Can Work Together

Why Me:

Professional Qualifications
I'm a certified coach and NLP (neurolinguistic programming) practitioner through Erickson International, which is an ICF (International Coaching Federation) certified Institution.
On top of that, I did a couple years of post-secondary in Psychology, however I've been studying body language since a toddler/child. As kids, we were taught ASL (sign) before we could speak; as young as 5, I was taught to be aware of triggers/tics for my neurodivergent siblings (autistic and epileptic), so it wouldn't escalate to a tantrum/episode, or to prep for safety (creating space/covering head).
I've volunteered with domestic violence and sexual assault victims; I've worked with at-risk youth, and sex-workers.
I've done upgrading through working with different business coaches and programs.
Unique Qualifications
I have deaf/hard of hearing and foster/step/bio/adopted siblings, so grew up with a diversity of culture and perspectives. Because of that, I'm specialized in body language, microfacial expressions, and verbal languaging, as I learned each sibling/parent had to be communicated with in a different way to be understood.
My parents were separated, and were polar opposite dynamics/households - one was married 4 times, multiple children, overly trusting, frivolous with money, really tidy, open-minded, and huge desire to love and be loved; the other was never in a relationship after the break-up (which occurred before I was born), no other children, very logical/pragmatic, judgmental, steadfast with money, quite messy, and huge desire to stay safe/be "right". Both required completely different communication styles and both provided opportunities for different personality traits.
I broke a 10-generation paternal trend, where the first-born was always a son and named after their father, so a daughter was not expected. In some ways, I was raised very clearly by certain gender roles.
- "Be a lady"; "The men are talking, shh."; Cooked, cleaned, wore dresses for outings. Had to be 'cutesy'. And in others, I was raised as the son expected: Played with trucks, wore overalls, played in the mud with all the animals, mucked out, helped pass tools when working on the vehicles or fences, and drove the tractor. I was taught to fight and speak my mind.
I've lived in and have studied different countries.